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Old 30th June 2010, 12:17 PM
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Also remember that you don't have to be either exactly 'straight' or exactly 'gay'. there are lots of orientations in between, including bi of course, and others.
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Old 30th June 2010, 05:49 PM
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I knew in 5th grade when I was attracted to an obese friend of mine, I noticed that I would stare at other guys and not at girls
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Old 6th July 2010, 03:58 AM
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I started looking at fat men and i thought I was straight because I was raised to be, i just recently started coming out and i cant be happier. You just have to experiment.
Fat gay guy here, hoping to find other gay men with similar feedee and feeding interest
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Old 7th July 2010, 02:13 PM
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I was obsessed with fat before I knew I was gay
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Old 8th July 2010, 03:13 AM
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In middle school, 6th grade to be exact, I had rough times in school. I was, what most people would call, "abused" by classmates. Not physical, but verbal. They call me every gay word kids knew and it hurt. I'd ignore it and do my best to not think about it. I barely knew what it meant to be gay (thanks to my sheltered life). So I never thought about it.

A few years later, I felt unattracted to girls. Porn was becoming a "cool" topic and all the boys would talk about it, but I found nothing attractive about it. Curious one night, I did look up porn, maybe to get a second opinion. The link I selected sent me to a gay site and I was more arroused by that. I was scared in a way. I looked up info about Being gay as a teen, and I read that I was "growing" and hormones made me that way. I was just young and curious, like the Internet told me.

But over the next few years past middle school, I kept going back to that site and even more different sites, exposing me to many different things about gay people. I was seeing kids in school in a different way, and I would think to myself, "that kid is cute" or "he's got a nice body" etc. Say what you want, but I was getting more an more attracted to guys. The Internet exposed me to gay culture, media, sex, and most specifically, gaining. I loved it, and I wanted in. It made me more accepting to my "gay" curiosities. I knew I was gay, or at least I thought so.

I guess mentally I was scarred and it stuck in the back of my mind I was indeed gay. But I have now been accepting of it. I did have some gay tendencies growing up, and I still do. I do recall having "obsessions" over kids before my issues in middle school, which I assume was a crush, but I never knew.

I'm gay. I'm not out, but that'll happen at the right time. I've been thinking about the past lately, and I'm ok. I wanted to vent, but never could. Forums online helped and it really uncovered who I am.
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Old 8th July 2010, 05:33 AM
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It's just... I guess I've always been bi...
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Old 10th July 2010, 04:24 AM
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I guess I would have to say that I am technically bi, but I've only ever been attracted to only a few girls, the rest of the are guys, but I didn't really come to grips about being attracted to men until about a year ago.
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Old 10th July 2010, 12:59 PM
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sexual orientation

I am women and now have fun with men as well. these days am looking for big belly men and women. hmmmmm nice
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Old 11th July 2010, 03:07 AM
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Though still at a "young" age, I've found that I'm more partially incl'ined to desire men. It's just something that feels right to me, and I'm more than excited to "experiment" when the opportunity approaches. Being gay is just a factor of my life that's me, and I'm not ashamed of it.
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Old 18th July 2010, 11:07 AM
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My first homosexual thoughts were around the age of 14... I've never thought on women in a sexual way. But, as a growing teenager, it was very confusing- it took me longer to come to terms with it myself than it did confirming it to others.
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