too many lurkers who want to look at the pics but dont want to take the time to be part of a community and that is what I found at other sites who shall remain nameless.
I will post my pic very soon if I have not done it already
further that some lurkers are no more than trouble makers and want to be out everybody and yet they dont want to have a pic of themselves. Sometimes I think a face pic would be the only way to have a membership of this kind but I could be wrong. I am out and I dont care who knows me or my life that I have chosen
[EDIT: Use the edit function, it's there]