What are some of the gayest things you do? [Archive]

Oboeplayer91

22nd December 2008, 04:32 AM

This is for the gay people here, I thought it'd be fun to list some of the things that are considered 'gay' that you do, or things that you do that make people think you're gay.

I'll go first.

1. I know the words to almost every Shania Twain song.
2. I love shopping
3. I love fashion and sewing
4. I'm a sucker for chick flicks
5. People often think I'm a girl on the phone.
6. Occasionally I do have limp wrists.

Diagonal

22nd December 2008, 04:39 AM

Shopping and Gossip.

Strider

22nd December 2008, 04:39 AM

uhhh, I like to groom my body hair often...

yea, that's it :/

Diagonal

22nd December 2008, 04:59 AM

Not only can we make giant kids, we might actually enjoy hanging out together! :D <3

Strider

22nd December 2008, 05:22 AM

I like electronic music
I talk a lot
I like the color pink
I like the mall
I like clothes
I looove to cook
I hate sports (even though I played football in high school and was first string defensive end)
Cooking isn't gay, baking is ;)

Strider

22nd December 2008, 05:54 AM

"Cooking isn't gay, baking is"

I agree, and I can't bake unfortunatly.

"Not only can we make giant kids, we might actually enjoy hanging out together! <3"

Lol, mos def.

Now, I don't want to sound like a complete flamer, I still have a manly side of me...

I love guns and want to join the NRA
I love to man the BBQ and eat lots of meat and more meat
I drive a Chevy Truck
I'm addicted to coffee and drink it black

So I can be the All American boy too.
Bro, you gotta learn to use the "quote" buttons. The big button that say's quote takes you to a reply screen with just that post and the "+ button does multiple quotes when you click those and then "post reply". If you want to use the quick reply box then click the quick reply button to the far right of the message you wish to quote and click the box marked "quote message in reply?".

fatso

23rd December 2008, 03:36 AM

Hmm...

Shopping
Talking alot/gossiping
The tounge click thing

I hate sports (even though I played football in high school and was first string defensive end)
I somewhat agree with you here. I don't really like most all sports, although I did play soccer all through highschool. I actually somewhat enjoyed that, but there aren't really any other sports I can think of that I like.

skinnykid

23rd December 2008, 04:13 AM

i never show the gay side of me, if any of you met me in person without knowing my sexual orientation, you'd never guess.

Strider

23rd December 2008, 07:19 AM

i never show the gay side of me, if any of you met me in person without knowing my sexual orientation, you'd never guess.
Believe it or not, but that is about 90% of all gay men and women. They look just like heterosexuals on the outside, just like other men instead of women.

FatMike

23rd December 2008, 09:54 AM

Believe it or not, but that is about 90% of all gay men and women. They look just like heterosexuals on the outside, just like other men instead of women.
Exactly.. :)

Oboeplayer91

23rd December 2008, 07:35 PM

In certain situations I try to act 'straight'. When I'm myself though I think it shows.

I remember a year ago a classmate said that if his son turned out gay he'd kill it. That really annoys me when people say things like that.

Freecell5671

23rd December 2008, 08:18 PM

ilikegettinfat

23rd December 2008, 08:55 PM

Cooking isn't gay, baking is ;)

Baking isn't "gay either!"

But if you go to the craft store and tell another woman she's got her fake flower colors all wrong...THAT's gay!

(*sheepish grin* - i know from experience :)) http://www.bigguts.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif

Strider

23rd December 2008, 09:25 PM

Baking isn't "gay either!"

But if you go to the craft store and tell another woman she's got her fake flower colors all wrong...THAT's gay!

(*sheepish grin* - i know from experience :)) http://www.bigguts.com/forum/images/smilies/biggrin.gif
Lol. That may be gay, but also hilarious :p

Fat Nat

24th December 2008, 11:12 AM

Some of the gayest things I do?

Let's see:

I kiss guys.
I perv over guys.
I enjoy fooling around in the bedroom, with guys.

That's about the gayest kind of stuff I do, I guess.

Lorma

29th December 2008, 07:09 AM

Have sex with dudes mostly.

HOPE THIS HELPS

uberbomb88

29th December 2008, 08:35 AM

i never show the gay side of me, if any of you met me in person without knowing my sexual orientation, you'd never guess.

Agreed, in that respect, and to the person who said people don't realize 90% of gay people are gay. That's totally true. Many show no signs whatsoever, unless one has contact with their personal life. The overwhelming majority I would say show some small signs, but are only really noticed when one looks for them. Only a small portion of gays fit the commonly espoused stereotype.

As for me...
-I talk with my hands a bit too much (at least thats what other people say)
-I friggen love to shop. The more to buy, the merrier.
-I am extremely succeptible to cute and/or adorable things and unabashedly say so out loud.

xxxxx

1st January 2009, 09:08 PM

I enjoyed Mamma Mia. Apparently thats pretty gay.

AceAttorney

4th January 2009, 07:33 PM

For me, I'd say:

-I like purple and other bright colors.
-I like baking (the more overly complicated the better).
-I like musicals.
-I talk with my hands a lot.
-I have like... one straight male friend.
-I enjoy decorating/matching colors of things.

Other than that I don't really like shopping unless it's for nerdy things like games. I don't really like a lot of pop-ish music (at least not in English). I don't use words like "girlfriend". I generally don't care about my clothes unless I'm going out. Things of this nature I generally don't do.

Oboeplayer91

5th January 2009, 01:46 AM

That's pretty similar for me as well. Most of my friends at school are girls, my best friend is a girl, and I have very few straight guy friends. Do any others have situations like that?

Fat Nat

5th January 2009, 12:07 PM

I'd never really thought about it before but offline I only really have a couple of good female friends and very few gay friends (though I'd like to change that). Most of my friends are straight guys!

dafatman

6th January 2009, 10:35 AM

That's funny, a year or two ago, all I had were straight friends, guys or girls. Now, I have at least two fraternity brothers that are gay, and I belong to the BLGTA, so my gay-to-straight ratio has exploded, lol.

Elfstone

6th January 2009, 06:43 PM

lets see.... aside from the whole liking guys thing...

well I am an artist and an actor, so there's two big ones right there, haha

I dunno, probably other stuff, but I tend to be oblivious...

CollegeGainer87

9th January 2009, 04:29 AM

For me, I think it's:

-Love of acting and theatre
-Love of big musicals and campy films
-Love the Disney theme parks and animated features
-I love to wear bright colors or flashy type of clothing
-About 90 percent of my friends are either gay or bi

bleu

9th January 2009, 06:13 PM

Drag.

So, what. Did I just win the thread. Or can anyone trump that?

bleu

9th January 2009, 06:28 PM

Lol, be careful about thinking you will 'win' a thread. I thought I had won the bench press thread, then realized a bunch of people had better than me.

Ha, I'll keep that in mind. I was just a trifle nunplussed that it took until me for someone to say drag. Maybe that's not so big with this crowd.

We need a competition to see who the gayest in all the land is.

A competition where even if you win, you lose. :p

ukfa

9th January 2009, 06:30 PM

Surely the gayest thing you could do is have sex with another man?

That will win the thread I'd imagine...

bleu

9th January 2009, 06:44 PM

Surely the gayest thing you could do is have sex with another man?

That will win the thread I'd imagine...

Nah, that's the most homosexual thing you could do. This is a thread about the GAYEST things you do. You may be surprised but the two are fairly different, in my opinion.

FatMike

9th January 2009, 07:12 PM

Firstly, Moved to Off Topic.
Nah, that's the most homosexual thing you could do. This is a thread about the GAYEST things you do. You may be surprised but the two are fairly different, in my opinion.
Don't take this the wrong way guys not that I like to rain on anyones parade, but just my opinion and something that ticks me off quite a bit.
The two technically SHOULDNT be different, but because the gay stereotype seems to be hammered into anyone that is gay it means it generally isn't. :rolleyes:
I've honestly never seen another minority group who seems to conform to what is a generally negative stereotype.
I could just imagine all the anger that would brew for instance if someone created a thread titled "what are the most straight things you do?".

Big_fat_kiddo

9th January 2009, 07:23 PM

Agreed,

So first read this: Gay-Homosexual (Wikipedia) (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gay) Before even trying to create a line between the two.

FatMike

9th January 2009, 07:28 PM

No wrong way taken, FatMike. And I think you are right. It is def. true w/ me. I like to purposley play to the stereotype a lot, cause I think it is fun, but if I didn't do it on purpose, no one would ever know I was bi. One problem, at least for me, bieng bi, is like two completely different sides. One, is the straight side, that wants to get married and have children and be an alpha male. Then the other side wants to be really gay. It is really conflicting and hard to balance lol.
I can totally relate to that too.. and nothing wrong with a bit of fun either. :p

bleu

9th January 2009, 08:42 PM

I'm only upset that a comment I made ticked off another member (not just a member, either: a moderator) and that I unintentially opened a can of worms. All in my first day, no less! Yeah, I'm kind of marvelous like that. :rolleyes:

Anyway, I didn't mean to offend anyone. Scout's honor. I can see your point, though I like most of the gay stereotypes, provided it's not taken to an obnoxious level. It's not necessarily a negative thing in my eyes. But we all differ and I'm certainly not looking to start a debate on the subject!

I could just imagine all the anger that would brew for instance if someone created a thread titled "what are the most straight things you do?".

Seriously? Wow. That's weird.

xxxxx

9th January 2009, 11:46 PM

Nothing wrong with a good old can of worms.
I can agree with the stuff about the homosexual-gay divide.
I'm fairly homosexual (I'll spare you the details), but I really don't like the gay stereotype.

Oboeplayer91

10th January 2009, 04:47 AM

Oh dear. Please people, I did NOT mean to offend anyone at all by starting this thread. It's just for fun, not to offend anyone. I am gay, and I'm open about it. There can be negative stereotypes, but most people just happen to do things that fall into one.

Personally I wouldn't mind have a Straightest things you do thread.

Anyways . . .
1. I don't consider myself drag, but sometimes I do enjoy wearing men's skirts.

And here's my straight stereotype things:

1. I very much enjoy monster trucks, racing, and the drag strip.

Hmm, I'm sure there's others that I just can't think of right now.

Elfstone

10th January 2009, 07:44 AM

Anyways . . .
1. I don't consider myself drag, but sometimes I do enjoy wearing men's skirts.

Kilts?

Just curious what a "man's" skirt is... haha

Strider

10th January 2009, 07:51 AM

I've never done drag, but I've always said that if I did I'd make a really hot chick :p

FatMike

10th January 2009, 08:41 AM

I'm only upset that a comment I made ticked off another member (not just a member, either: a moderator) and that I unintentially opened a can of worms. All in my first day, no less! Yeah, I'm kind of marvelous like that. :rolleyes:

Didn't really tick me off, just me putting my opinion on what is the gay stereotype out there. :p
Was just a friendly reminder of well.. society I guess. xD

electric

29th March 2009, 01:01 AM

Howabout:

1. Wearing a patchwork gold and black leggings and silver vinyl shape piece along with a ratted blonde wig that stuck out of the top of the head; I won 1st place at a voguing ball.

2. Being late for school four days in a row because I was getting a blowjob or giving one, or having sex.

3. I know more mariah and whitney houston songs than anyone else I know.

4. My mother made a bet I was gay when I was six years old.

Fat Nat

29th March 2009, 11:08 AM

Actually, I DO have and regularly use a pair of hair straighteners. That's pretty gay isn't it?

Coolkid

10th April 2009, 07:55 AM

Give a good bj duh

KitsuneFox

10th April 2009, 10:35 PM

I try not to look stereotypically gay, but I think my biggest thing is fashion. I always like to wear "phresh" outfits. Kind of gay >>"

skinnykid

12th April 2009, 03:47 AM

I flirt with 2 of my closest friends who are also guys but i act like im just joking and we laugh about it, so pretty much im openly gay to some people but they dont realise that i really am, they think im being funny. Its like "Kurt? gay? haha, riiiiggghhht, not possible" And thats about the gayest thing i do.

Chaser91

13th April 2009, 04:02 AM

Haha, for the most part I fail at "gay" things. No interest in broadway, can't stand Madonna (or any other pop superstar for that matter), enjoy mostly action movies...ah, the list goes on.

I am getting progressively more "stylish" though, thanks to a GQ subscription. I even enjoy the shopping part, but that's really because it only takes me about half an hour to find everything I need. Once I get past the 45 minute mark, I start wanting to die lol.

estharwolf

13th April 2009, 05:12 PM

Um I would have to say that it would be my love for musicals. Definitely one of my biggest guilty pleasures

thefattest9

14th April 2009, 10:12 PM

talking, hair cut quite often, talking a looooot, confesed gay over here:D:D
Luv Amaral, Gloria Estefan and Kelly Clarkston

freshmangainer

16th April 2009, 05:08 AM

I don't do many gay things but love fashion,love flirting with most of my guy friends most which are total closet cases, andi don't do anything with sports

gluttony

3rd May 2009, 03:22 AM

I love to shop, love fashion, love the fine arts (Classical music/Drawing/Painting are my favs), love to gossip, I have limp wrists sometimes, and talk with a lisp occasionally...the list goes on.

I don't try to be the stereotypical fruitloop but some of these things just come naturally to me. :)

GIANT501

5th May 2009, 12:33 AM

i like to lay my head on my best friend's giant belly. i also like to rub it too. i just like the feel of uhis big stomach. its so comforting

flubadubchub

6th May 2009, 09:18 PM

The gayest thing I do is watch gainer vids on youtube lol, but if you mean personality wise and stereotypes I guess I sometimes put too much thought into my outfits.

astroyd

15th May 2009, 08:03 AM

Strider

15th May 2009, 04:15 PM

Elfstone

18th May 2009, 06:00 AM

my love of men

wow man, that is SO unbelievably gay! :) :D

counterbook

20th May 2009, 12:17 AM

I always had a thing for the Jeep Wrangler only to find out later that it was voted gay car of the year

tylerisme345

9th July 2009, 02:46 PM

1. i have a all my friends are gilrs
2. i have a couple gay friends
3. i have limp wrist all the time
4. I hate sports

pizzabelly42

15th July 2009, 08:51 PM

when i am out of town, i like to run around the hotels i stay in in a G string or a thong. Im really skinny right now so it looks really goofy, thats y i am trying to gain alot. that is prolly the gayest thing i do

sfx390

17th July 2009, 08:18 PM

Ooh, that'd be
a) Dance, electronic, cheese music
b) Shopping
c) Gossiping

but tbh, all men do this in some respects, its just an exaggerated stereotype, I don't "act" straight, nor gay. I am who I am.

palaber

27th July 2009, 11:29 PM

uhmmm... like... kissing other guys jsut for fun?

corinthianimp

29th July 2009, 03:35 PM

Haha good posts here. I fly under the gaydar too.

Although I do have limp wrists...

dafatman

4th August 2009, 05:24 AM

I can't stand Madonna.

Not a fan of musical theater.

I don't have a goatee.

I don't have a bear-paw tattoo.

I am not skinny or twinky.

Decorating bores me.

So does clothes shopping.

I don't disco dance

I don't pluck, tweeze or trim my body hair

I don't belong to gay.com or adam4adam

No rainbow things around the house.

Never done drag.

I have a masculine bearing and diction.

I know Ohm's law and how to solder.

I own a toolbox full of tools (pliers, wrenches, screwdrivers, etc.)

I must not be gay, then.

I'll turn in my membership card in the morning.

No no no, you don't have to turn it your card, just exchange it. I think you'll be wanting the LESBIAN membership. ;-)

Actually, I know Ohm's law, how to solder, how to change a tire, I understand how to play sports, Don't belong to gay.com or adam4adam, and I usually pass as straight, unless I decide to "queen it up." One of my best friends has basically remodeled his entire house, does all his own yard work, and is rebuilding his truck.

the point of this thread is to play with the stereotypes.

Ya Mum

23rd August 2009, 02:43 PM

my turn, my turn, my turn, my turn,

-My best friends are a majourity of them are girls - we get along all fine
-Im bichier then all of my friends
-I like shoping - Acoording to one of my friends im her shopping buddy
-I talk a lot
-I gossip a lot
-I dont really enjoy sport that much-(I enjoy Badmitan, Fencing, Table tennis, European Handball and Netball)
-Its not that something that i do, but my voice is a tad higher then the guys in my age group
-I don't know if this is a gay thing or not, but i hate getting dirty and im always neat and organized

Thats pretty much everything

Dan0823

26th August 2009, 01:39 AM

I do my nails xD
I thinks that's the only really gay thing I do. :B

ladymanticore

29th September 2009, 05:29 PM

Like cooking
Like shopping (for food)
Talkative
Intonation (not voice) not always fitting

uberbomb88

29th September 2009, 07:45 PM

I totally thought I passed quite nicely as straight... until I met my amazing boyfriend :) He told me he could tell immediately, before even hearing me speak... Apparently, I cross my legs too much, sway my hips a bit when i walk, have limp wrist action, and have some very girly speech patterns... Oh and I can do a flawless impression of a flaming gay guy (you know the valley-girl type girly talk)

Oops! :P

uberbomb88

29th September 2009, 07:48 PM

I always had a thing for the Jeep Wrangler only to find out later that it was voted gay car of the year

OMG SO DID I!!!!

Whenever I saw one I would tell whatever friends I was with (who I wasn't out to yet) that that it was my dream car. (It still is, btw ;) It wasn't until like right before I started coming out to them that one of my kind friends told me that the wrangler is like the gayest car ever...

Oops again!

gear134

30th September 2009, 09:26 PM

OMG SO DID I!!!!

Whenever I saw one I would tell whatever friends I was with (who I wasn't out to yet) that that it was my dream car. (It still is, btw ;) It wasn't until like right before I started coming out to them that one of my kind friends told me that the wrangler is like the gayest car ever...

Oops again!

Haha, the Wrangler is one of my favorite vehicles, also. I'm not too sure if I'm gay, though. I have been curious for a while, but haven't been able to do any experimentation to see what I like.

maxwell edison

6th November 2009, 12:54 AM

I enjoy fashion and trying on woman's clothing.

maxwell edison

6th November 2009, 12:54 AM

I enjoy wearing women's clothing and talking about fashion.

Arepo

8th November 2009, 02:35 PM

Hey... if baking is gay, than I must BE gay. I dont know cooking but I am an excellent baker...

Another thing. Not only I sound like a women in the phone. Sometimes its even hard to convince the "other side" that I am not! :p

I dont talk way too much... really
... unles you are not one of my female-friends (sorry for the expression, but I hope you guys know what I mean - actually I wanted to say girlfriend, but I realised that this expression is somehow "occupied" by another meaning lol )