When did you want to gain?

[young gain]

Which option best fits how you first became interested in gaining?

[bellywish]

I always wanted to gain but kept it in the "closet" my whole life. It wasn't until my 48th birthday that I decided to enjoy my second of life a happy fat man. I no longer wanted to conform to the perfect image of a man that society expects. I still keep healthy, but no longer worry about my weight or how big my belly gets.

[big boy]

im 13 and 175 pounds and sometimes i want to gain weight and sometimes i dont somebody help me figure out what to do

[BigMick]

Hey Big Boy

At 13 i'm not convinced that gainin is the best thing, kids can be cruel when they're young and life might be tough. Ya need to ask yourself why you want a big gut and compare this to what you think your lifestyle difference would be if you didn't have a big gut. At 175# you're a fairly big guy for your age, but nobody can decide for you, this is something you must do for yourself.

BigMick ;)

[lear]

I've always wanted to gain, I'm part of a rather "large" family and it just seems to happen, so I enbraced it.

bigboy, I have a question for you. If someone makes fun of you do you take it seriously or just let it slide. when I was your age I was about 230 pounds and I'll warn you the insults get more severe as you get larger. if it's something you can take and you know for certain you want to get heavier go for it.

I've learned that people look at someone my size (330 pounds) and see a target (those people only see you as fat and therefore weak). I've also learned to be a person that knows how to make connection with powerful people, like the defensive line of the football team. I've also learned that wit can be of use if you know when to apply it. If it comes to it I know how to protect myself (arm and wrist locks are wonderful things) if the need arises.