What age did you know you were gay, if you are?

[fatboy952]

This poll is obviously for the gay guys on this website. I'm just curious to what age you knew you were gay and if you have any stories you want to tell about it, feel free.

[goodgainer]

oh! I have a paraquote from the show queer duck!

"I knew I was gay when I came out of my shell!"

[vmanbelly]

i knew i was gay when i started gaining and i got suport from my friends that figured it out

[Raain]

I knew I was gay when I was a freshman in high school, I met a cute blonde hair, blue eyed, gorgeous guy whom i chased after for 3 years, and now am heartbroken over him. but now i have the love of my life <3

[dream853]

I knew I was gay last year in November...so November 2006...the beginning of sophomore year...well there were many signs and everything before that, but that's when I fully acknowledged it. ;)

[FatMike]

Moved, due to it not been a poll and not a poll that obviously everyone can parcipate in.

[Khato]

I was turned gay by a homo's rainbow eyebeams.

Damn those dastardly homosexuals and their flambouyant superpowers!

[fatboy952]

Sorry, I tried to make it a poll but I guess it didn't work.


And now I will answer my own question...I knew I was gay when I was about 13.

[Bigwolfbebad]

I was turned gay by a homo's rainbow eyebeams.

Damn those dastardly homosexuals and their flambouyant superpowers!


Holy crap dude I thought I was the only one o_o

*grins* Nah, I've been gay since I was about 12...we're just starting young now huh? I blame furry though, it's all the Sheriff from Disney's Robin Hoods fault!

[FatMike]

For me.. I first had the tendencies as early as 10.
Came back around 12/13..
Disappeared for a while, then got curious again just before I turned 15.. The first time I did stuff with another guy was about 5 days after my 15th Birthday.
I'm not closing off my options just yet though to the opposite sex.

[jaybear]

For me, the first real awareness of it came in the locker room after my very first day of high school gym class!

[jaybear]

Oh yeah... and I got into high school two years earlier than most of the kids... so I was two months short of my 13th birthday and way younger than most of the guys. But what I saw in the locker room that day, and my - er - reaction to it, left no doubt in my mind!

[thornman]

I remembered I was watching some biography of Ashton Kutcher, and it showed him modeling and walking down a runway shirtless, and I got aroused. This was when I was like 14 or 15, but that's really my first memory of myself noticing that I was attracted to guys and not girls. I really accepted myself at 16 and I find that the with each friend I come out to, my life is like 100 times easier each day, so things are going well. ;)

[TheRougeGallant]

Wow...I've know since I was in 7th grade (am a junior in high school now) but I had thoughts as early as 7! Damn you, you hot life gaurd that saved my life...had to give me mouth to mouth...;]

Wow...I made that seem really quite happy and free! Which is the exact opposite of what it was...I spent the whole of my freshman year and first semester of my sophomore year...well, freaking out, for lack of a better term...I am just glad it is over with...

[Fat Nat]

When I first got online and started chatting with other gainers, I started having these really horny conversations with this one guy from California who at the time considered himself to be straight, as did I. Gradually over a few weeks the conversations got hornier and hornier and we both admitted to each other that we might be bi (although I can't imagine how I can have justified that classification as I've never been attracted to a woman in my life!). Eventually I came to the conclusion that I was gay, around the age of 12 or 13.

I didn't come out to my friends until I was 16 though and rather frustratingly I'm STILL not out to my parents. One day...

[Toddle]

Sounds kinda like me. Only I came out to my mom, along with my friends.

[Obesekid1988]

Knew or admitted it?

Knew about 11 or at least sort of guessed/unconsiously knew. Admitted it? 19

[Toddle]

Knew: About the same as you, Obesekid. Admitted: school and friends: 16, Mum: 17

[Obesekid1988]

That was admitted it to myself fully and absolutely without the possibility that I could be bi or anything like that.

[BigBellyBoi]

i was 13 and in 8th grade XPP

[frostycakes]

I dunno, really-- when I was middle school, I kept thinking I was bi and whatnot, but I finally realised it somewhere over the summer between 8th grade and freshman year, and came out later that year. (Hey, it was the beginning of HS, fresh start and all that bull)

Although lately I've been questioning whether I actually am bi to some extent again, it's just strange. :P

[rayk20]

Around the age of 13 i started to notice. A cute boy in class kept hoovering around in my head ;)

[ChubbyLevi]

i knew i was pretty much gay in the 7th grade. and after looking back i
ve be gay all my life. i was a big power rangers fan, back when the 1st one came out and i remeber looking at the red ranger, Jason and had a strange feeling. But i didnt not fully fully said to myself 'Yes i'm gay and proud' until just recently when i found the love of mylife!! :)

[erik13]

OMG! I remebered that I used to look at the red ranger too! Gee, I never realized that I had those feelings at such young age. It's odd though, because up until the middle of freshman year I thought I was straight, lol.

[ChubbyLevi]

Sweet i'm so glad i wasnt the only one!!!!

[electricub]

I knew when I was about 12. I was at a beach and there were a few big guys lounging around shirtless, and that's when I first felt a homosexual attraction.

[billibob]

I started to realize I was gay around 6th grade. There was a EXTREMELY large kid in my English class and his shirt would regularly ride up, exposing a bit of his belly... I remember that turning me on quite a bit, which was confusing to say the least. After that I started to realize I was attracted to a few guys /8of average size) in my history class and it went from there...

Though, I don't think it really clicked until high school that I was really gay and had no attraction to the opposite sex. I think it was so delayed was because I am completely "straight-acting".

[doomplex]

I first noticed I was attracted to guys at around 13. Strangely, I noticed my fascination with big guts around 7.

[Strider]

I denied alot to myself about my sexuality and my weight gain fetish so it's no surprise that it wasn't until I was almost 20 that I came out to myself. I've just turned 21 and I'm still mostly in the closet, but I've at least come to terms with myself.

[ianto27]

Prolly about 13, when I got insanely aroused by a guy in my class at school. parents don't really know (they kinda guessed, but don't say anything) but I told my firends when I was 15.

[xxxxx]

vaguely known since about 10, admitted it to myself aged 15.
so far told about 2 people...

[redvein]

since forever!
funny, everyone knew but me XD
until like 3 or 4 years ago, did I really embrace it.

[dchall]

I don't really remember not knowing. Never really got into girls much as a kid, and was more interested in looking at guys in gym class and stuff starting in junior high. Also had that whole ugly sense that it "wasn't right," which was really unfortunate. That's what you get when you have very conservative parents. :/

Nowadays (I'm 27), my attraction to girls is sort of off and on. I'll see a girl that I think is a real turn on, an other times, nothing. There doesn't seem to be any rhyme or reason to it.

[blargh127]

Had thoughts since 11-12 ish.. came to realize it a little after my 16th birthday.

I'm a lot happier though now ever since I did. =]

[Strider]

Had thoughts since 11-12 ish.. came to realize it a little after my 16th birthday.

I'm a lot happier though now ever since I did. =]
Yea, I pretty much ignored the fact (to myself, like subconsciously or something) that I could get off to gay porn (straight porn kinda worked, but not that good) until I was almost 20. It was weird, I was at my old job and it was dead and I wasn't doing much and all of a sudden I had like a revelation. I mean up until that point I like tried to get dates with girls and even had a few "trial" girlfriends in highschool and I wanted to have sex and get a girl for social reasons, but never could go through with it or be with a girl for a long period of time. I think it was becuase I was way outside my comfort zone.

Lol, rambling again. Anyways, yea it does make you alot happier on the inside and that let's you stop faking being happy on the outside. I know my friends noticed a change in me.

[chubarama]

There was never much question with me. I was a pretty flamboyant kid, very much into the stereotypical stuff gay kids are into. As soon as I started having sexual urges they were always concentrated on boys, and I was always pretty self-accepting about it. :) I consider myself lucky that way I guess.

[goodgainer]

I always liked men, but... it would seem that I didn't know that it was 'wrong' until everyone in my family started asking if I had a girlfriend. Then I was like, 'oh...'

xD I've since admitted it to myself. (I was 13.) I've also admitted it to my friends and anyone who asks, but my family has yet to know.

[notsolittlepiggy]

This poll is obviously for the gay guys on this website. I'm just curious to what age you knew you were gay and if you have any stories you want to tell about it, feel free.

I first had an attraction to men with big bellies while I was around 7 or 8 years old. My first serious "crush" on a male classmate was in 5th grade (10 years old). In both those cases I surely had no idea what it meant.

Later in 7th and 8th grade (12 and 13 years old), I realized I was very attracted to males, which was a bit different than before. In the junior high locker room there were several guys who wanted to grab my cock... and did, because I was somewhat more sexually developed than most of my classmates. I had to pretend I was annoyed, but I sure enjoyed the attention. One guy and I would mutually fondle each other in the auditorium when the lights went out. It was around this time I realized it was not socially acceptable for guys to be attracted to each other (this was decades ago), but it wasn't until I was in college that I knew I was gay for sure... with no attraction whatsoever to the opposite sex.

[zmariottax]

I've been interested in the girth and the gain since I was a wee child in grade school, and I skipped the whole maybe-straight-eventually-aknowledgment phase of being gay. As long as I've had libido, I've known I was interested in guys.

[bg1cub]

I am bi, but I knew I liked guys too since I was 13 and I was friends with this awesome chubby guy.

[Big-jamie]

signs point to me been gay when i was three and eas wearing my sisters jewelery set lawl but i fully knew i was gay at 13 came out when i was 17

[peteyboy]

I've always known really, it just never was a big surprise to me. But I didn't come out till I was 19, three years ago.

[BigL007]

Always, my parents where cool, looking back they where very supportive. The man accross the street had a huge manly gut, he would swim in our pool!

[regut]

Well, I knew I were gay when I fell in love in love with a friend. Before that I hadn´t had any idea about that feelings

[gaijingainer]

The first time I remember having a gay thought was when I was 13, watching some boy-band music video. I dismissed it as a stupid thought, and put it to the back of my mind. The next time it really reared up was when I was 18. I told a friend who I'd met not long before, and it went great... Still not out to everyone yet, but more than a handful of people know..

[diamone]

Well the first day I went to Academy (what they now call Charter Education) was the summer before I turned 10. I was used to being the Fat Boy, but at Academy there were three other 5th graders who made me look like Karen Carpenter. The fattest of the three sat next to me in the Academy equivalent of Homeroom. We also had Adapted PE together. In Charter Academy it was all about the learning not about the process, so we never got dragged through rope climbing and basketball and all the other stupid stuff they used to drag the fat boys through. They let us use the pool during our gym hour....all alone----just the two of us----right after the double-lunch period we both got. So there was all kinds of sauna and steam room and etc right in the locker room by the pool. So we would do our customary horseplay in the pool for awhile and then go hibernate in a combination of the steam rooms and sauna.

By the late fall we were playing with each other's bellies and generally arousing one another as much as two ten year old fat boys can do. By Christmas we were in each others arms in the steam room and sauna and by spring break we were kissing and hugging just like we'd seen grownups do or by watching on TV.

Neither of us had any idea about straight or gay yet, we just knew we loved and accepted and validated each other for whatever that can mean to two ten year olds. As the years wore on, I began noticing the big hard hairy ball bellied football coaches and maintenance men and boys vice-principal and theatre tech manager and brass band director and recording and film and TV production managers and etc. like that.

So by the time I was 15 or 16 I figured out I was a chubby chaser, and maybe by the time I got out of the Army a few years later it had dawned on me I was full fledged gay. By then of course at least the chub and chaser scene had been out awhile, and the chub-for-chub subgroup had begun to make a showing. Before then, chub for chub consisted of single 40s and 50s year old men who couldn't get any without paying for it and most of em were broke, going after the little insecure introverted fat boys like me looking for older friends cuz kids were cruel. And it evolved from there.

[fatboy2014]

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