Let Us Talk

[Fat kid]

Come on let's talk im bored anything ask me a question something................

[undecided]

When you started gaining did you every deal with guilt? I keep starting and stopping fighting with a sense of guilt. When I start gaining I think of it as another type of "body building." But then after a few days I start to think I am becoming effeminate (growth of fat boobs) and I start to throttle back and stop gaining.

What do you do and how do you handle it? Just curious.

[Fat kid]

You do it for fun there is not reason to feel guilt none what so ever. Just let yourself go and do it.

[Fat kid]

Do you use AIM........

[undecided]

Thanks. It can be fun, but its like I wish I could go from 150 to 250 in a week. Mostly because I don't really like eating, but I do like feeling bloated and stuffed. Sometimes I gulp air to expand even further. Have you ever tried that?

[undecided]

What do you mean by AIM?

[Fat kid]

If you like being bloated try drinking lots of juice or soda there fattening but yes i have tried that it is cool but eating alot is essential to being big......So do you use AIM

[Fat kid]

A O L instant messenger...........Im straight if your interested

[undecided]

I have an AT&T account and I think it does Instant message with AOL. Let me check.

[Fat kid]

what is your user account..........

[undecided]

I am downloading AIM now. I have dial up and it may take a while. If you want do quick chat there is the dimension html chat site.

[Fat kid]

It's fine id think twice about handing it out twoo.........lol.........So wanna just talk

[undecided]

Sure we can talk.

[Fat kid]

oh ok lol diregard that last one then.........

[Fat kid]

is the aim download finished yet

[undecided]

Up and running. What is your address?

[Fat kid]

yours first.............im weird......................

[Big_fat_kiddo]

Um... just a thing i needed to say.. but isnt the "Private Message" option a better idea? and faster? :confused:

[Fat_jack101]

Well then they would have to refresh the page alot so they could see the pm.

[Big_fat_kiddo]

This takes more space on the boards, and they will have to refresh anyway to see if a new post is made.

[Growin Belly]

Yeah, just talk about the download at least in a pm.

[diamone]

Well as a 16 year veteran of behavioral health and adaptive bariatrics worlds I can tell you two things:

#1 the resurgence in interest in the post WW-II version of American Male Culture is a great help. This culture, based not-that-loosely on blue collar/tradesman culture of the previous Industrial Era has many useful elemets, not the least of which is the sense of ``the ones with the gold makes the rules''. Since nobody with any of the gold is gonna give a rat's ass one way or the other if a man gains or not, the modern gainer can use that to his advantage thusly: `If he don't sign his check, pay his rent or buy him his dinner, he can't say jack about how the man lives his life during his off hours.

#2 it's imperative that any man learn to become comfortable, even extroverted about his life at present before he chooses whether or not to do anything about it. For example, if a man has vices and wants to eliminate them, the man in question first has to come up with some ways and means of being OK with whatever current condition(s) the man shares his life with (smoking drinking eating or conversely being young thin interoverted etc etc etc). Only then will whatever the man chooses to do with his life have any lasting effect.